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A laidback singer/songwriter/author that love the creative process almost more than the outcome. Lives in Stockholm, Sweden.

A crash course in 10 modules on how to happily handle the transformation from the state “I” to the construction ”us” or “we”. In this episode, we’ll take a look on how your cringe persona can be your best strategy.

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Part five — Couple-only dinner parties

It’s like a car inspection, it hurts your wallet, and it must be done. It’s terribly unnecessary and, goes under your skin, and is generally annoying.

But have no fear. Just follow these steps, and you’ll be fine.

Preparation is the key to success. So that you once and for…


A crash course in 10 modules on how to happily handle the transformation from the state “I” to the construction “we”. In this episode, we’ll take a look on lifetime and money spent on IKEA.

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Disclaimer: I suspect that some people will choke on their morning coffee and think that I’m generally prejudiced and that the Neanderthal lamp shines unusually bright over my head. …


A crash course in 10 modules on how to happily handle the transformation from the state “I” to the construction ”us” or “we”. In this episode, we’ll investigate the pro and cons of changing pronouns from ”I” to ”us” or ”we”.

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Part three — Personal pronoun

Descartes once said ”cogito, ergo sum” or something similar which means, “I think, therefore I am”. In addition to the general error which states that it’s impossible to derive an ”ought” from an ”is”, I kind of suspect that ol’ Descartes probably wasn’t particularly married. He probably had a dame…


A crash course in 10 modules on how to happily handle the transformation from the state “I” to the construction “we”. In this episode we’ll investigate why the nights out with your buds no longer is your own decision.

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Disclaimer: I suspect that some people will choke on their morning coffee and think that I’m generally prejudiced and that the Neanderthal lamp shines unusually bright over my head. …


A crash course in 10 modules on how to happily handle the transformation from the state "I" to the construction "we". In this episode we’ll investigate why a brisk walk in the forrest is your new weekend fun.

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Disclaimer: I suspect that some people will choke on their morning coffee and think that I’m generally prejudiced and that the Neanderthal lamp shines unusually bright over my head. …


There are too few pranks in life. We are generally boring as a species and take everyday life far too seriously. So that’s why I strike a blow for a day in the spirit of pranks.

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1. Leave the copier set at 99 copies, reduce 200%, extra dark and A3 paper.

2. Tell the service rep at a “drive-through” that you would like to take the food home with you.

3. If you have a porcelain eye, tap it occasionally with a pencil when talking to…


The feeling when you think you are a unique creative young man who debuts as an author… but…

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Look! I have written my first book! I said and handed the proof to the shallow “friend” (we have kids in the same school, and he’s always letting everybody know all the cool things he’s done, are doing, or about to do).

“Good for you!”

“I know! I am so…


The combination of impaired vision due to age, trendy designed menus with microscopic fonts at hip restaurants, and too many beers in the system can really broaden your food intake experience.

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The other day my friends and I decided to go to a restaurant, drink and have a bite and act like adults. We googled a trendy shack on the other side of the city and decided to give it a try. Once we got there, we were placed in a…


This is so true for basically all social media if you think about it. With exceptions of course. In my case I spend thousands of dollars to send people to Spotify, Facebook or Instagram true AD's. I get basically nothing in terms of money. And it's exhausting.


Thanks for clearing these advantages that so many leave out of their "success stories". Makes a lot of sense when you think about it. Great article.

Stefan Woldekidan

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